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Telling a friend, relative or work colleague concerning the personyou met online will make it possible for you to get another opinion that will stop you from doing anythingsilly. Like travelling to an unfamiliar place to spend a week with your new crush.
Predictably, there's a catch. Dating app Hinge discovered there are certain topics that attract people better than others. For example, profiles that slap of spontaneity, including those that mention bucket list items or holiday plans, are more than twice as likely to spark a dialogue.
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Naturally, this thesis strengthens Blatt's business model. Dating websites succeed when our relationships last only long enough to build trust in the algorithm--but not long enough to make us swap the dating pool for the marriage altar. Online dating websites promise companionship and love, but their viability is dependent upon love remaining the elusive target.
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